Would like to have three way sex?
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Would you like to double the pleasure? Are you looking for a threesome?

If you are experienced in threesome sex, you do not need advice. Because you are here, I guess though that  you don't have too much experience. Threesomes are the same as everything else in the life. First you have to learn what to do and how to do it, and then practice it. Practice makes it perfect.

For a threesome we need a couple and a third person. The idea of let's have a threesome usually sparks out from the males brain. It  does happen because all the males are genetically designed to this way. One of the old gene controls the male's brain. If a healthy man meets with a pretty woman, sooner or later he will imagine her as a sex partner. The old gene wants to make the man spread the life's seed.

Women are genetically designed to  nurture and love. Their focus was to build a nest. To take care of the family that their mating has produced. It used to be this way, but not anymore. This female gene doesn't work that way how it used to be 50 years ago.  Today every women has the same sexual freedom as men.

In US approximately 10 million open minded people  believe in sexual freedom and live in some kind of sexual freedom. So the idea to have a threesome didn't necessarily come from the male part of the couple. If she or he had some romantic secret affair outside their partnership she/he will get the idea to have a threesome around the 7th - 8th year of their relationship.

How do I introduce my threesome idea to my mate?

You have to talk about it with your spouse. But don't be pushy. You might push yourself out from your relationship. You have to be smart. During foreplay when your partner is turned on tell him/her your fantasies about sharing his/her body  with the hot neighbor. Probably your partner will be very surprised. Next time tell him/her again. Repeat this several times. At one point your partner should produce their own fantasy.  At this point your partners sexual activity will increase. It might never happen. Some people just don't want to do it. But if your partner will share his/her fantasy openly with you, then you can take a next step.

What is the next step to have a threesome?

You can talk openly about inviting somebody into your relationship. Before you do so, both of you have to be sure,  you can handle to see each other while having sexual intercourse with a third person. Maybe your spouse is going to have more fun than you will have, or your spouse is going to enjoy more than you expected. And you wont be jealous.

Today all kinds of nasty diseases are around. You should know what is STD and how to protect yourself. It is recommended to wear a condom. 

You understand that you will be naked, your body might touch other same gender person's body parts, or you will be touched by others. You know when two guys having an orgasm they can spray cum all over the place. Even if they wear condoms accidents can happen. 

Having sex is a most enjoyable exercise. When people exercise they are going to sweat. When three people have sex, they are going to produce a lot of sweat. You understand if three or four person having sex in the same bed it can be messy. If you are not sure you can handle any of the above, don't try it.

Remember swinging is not for everyone. If your relationship is not strong enough, the threesome is going to destroy it. Strong love based relationships are going to get stronger.

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Let's find a third person for the first threesome.

If you did not find competitive partner yet, we suggest you try to looking for a middle age (40 - 53) couple. They are still attractive and if they healthy, their sex drive still works very well. They still can go all night long.  Also if you are younger, or first timer, they can show you the ropes. Of course you don't have to choose a middle age partner if you don't want to.  You can start with a boy toy if you like. However if you start with a middle aged, more willing and pliable third partner, your first three way sex will be more enjoyable. You can play later on with boy toys...

It is not the only way to go. Many others are available. According to experienced lifestyle couples opinion, the above way is the simplest and the less manipulative way.

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Let's get to the action

You have found the person, that you would like to share your intimate moment with. You going to share with that person your bed, yourself and your spouse. You already met with this person or persons, you have talked with them and  have developed some kind of chemistry. You have made a decision you going to  have three way sex with them. Your little team arrived to the room well this is actually going to happen. The best thing to do, darken the room a little if it is day time, or light same candles if it is night time. Try to create subdued lighting in the room. Put some soft romantic music on and start the erotic play. A biggest mistake you can do,  start to talk again. You have already talked enough.

Get naked and get into the bed

The single gender person the one in the threesome who will be entertained by two of the opposite sex persons. For example in this case the single gender person is a lady. She should be between the two guys. Also she should make the guys comfortable with the fact that they going to please her at the same time. She should tell them they need to please her and she should tell them what is in her mind, what she likes and what she doesn't like. One of the guys is her long life partner or her husband, the other one is the new guy. She should pay the same attention to both guys. If she pays too much attention to the new guy, he might think too much about her and maybe her hubby will develop some jealousness. If she spends too much attention to her hubby, it might make the new guy uncomfortable.

The guys have to perform at their best. It is very important, they are comfortable. They have to be comfortable with their own and the others naked bodies. They have to understand their body parts may touch and rub against each other, during this sexual encounter.  When everyone understands what is going to happen, then it's time to play hard.

Sexual encounters in threesomes

One of the guys should keep her busy in the upper department, (neck, ear, and kissing). The other should concentrate to the lower departments, (stomach, belly button, thighs, and the genital area). Also they can perform oral sex on each other. It is the best if her hubby goes first to the lower department. He is supposed to know where her erogenous zones are, where to touch and how to turn her on. No intercourse yet. When everyone is exited enough, the guys should change positions. The new guy goes down and the hubby goes up. It is a proper etiquette in the first time threesome, first the new guy performs intercourse with her. He is down there, she already turned on, and he can do it at any time. Her life long partner can talk with her, kiss her or even play with her boobs. Also it is a lot of men's fantasy is to watch their wife during love making with another man. If you are one of these guys, right now it is your time. You can watch her now.

Threesome positions

The best three some position is  doggy style. One guy performs intercourse on her. The other crawls under her and can play with her tits, or even can lick her clit. If she loves to give oral sex the other guy can go down on his knees, in front of her face, and she can perform oral sex on him. The other good threesome position for her, if she loves to perform oral sex is, one of the guy sits on the sofa or a lower chair with wide open legs. She goes down in front of him, on her knees. Her buttocks are up and has free access to any kind of sexual activity. Oral sex, intercourse or even anal sex. Not too many women love anal penetration, but if she loves anal sex, she can have it now. May I remind you, it is recommended in threesomes to wear a condom. It will give protection to STD and also help not to make a big mess. Men have orgasms, spray cum all over, things can get really messy with out condoms. Not many men want to perform oral sex on women if somebody else cum is dripping from her vagina.

After both men have performed intercourse with her, time to relax. Clean up a little. She should get dressed but not  all the way, just wear something really sexy, negligee, or see through baby doll, with out any panties. This will let the guys know, the game is not over yet. Have a little talk, a drink or two and go back to the subject again. Because it was the first threesome maybe it wasn't perfect for everyone. Also threesome sex is very erotic, maybe the guys didn't last long enough, but the second time will be much better. Everyone knows the rules, and everyone know what need to be done. Also both guys already had intercourse with her and the second time they will spend much more time to take her to the orgasm heaven.

Two women with a man (ffm).

It is a  man's dream. If you ever get there, you have to know what to do. The basic set up same as above. The man is in the middle. However now he has to delegate the two ladies. Today lot of bi sexual ladies are around, and if his two partner are bi sexual, he should ask them to concentrate on him first. They can play with each other later on.  If two women perform sex with a man, it is a proper etiquette his wife or partner have an intercourse with him first. The second lady can play with him, or just watch and when she is comfortable join in. In this combination he has to perform intercourse with two ladies. Also he has to give them an orgasm, or will not have a second change. Usually at first, because it is a very erotic, he will cum at no time. Just a little clean up and the game can go on. Both ladies have to work on him to get him hard again. It won't take to long. He is going to have intercourse with the new lady now. Because he is having sex with a strange lady and his wife or partner assisting, he will not last too long again. And ladies you have to get him hard again. If he is a healthy man, he can do it and if he hard he will stay hard probably for a long time. If the ladies are bi sexual or just curious it is very erotic to watch playing ladies together for a man. And he can participate also. It will make him very excited and horny. So ladies if you don’t mind a women's touch it is your time now.

Once again the best position is  doggy style. If the ladies are bi sexual, one of the ladies can crawl under her and play with her tits or lick her clit and his cock in the same time. If both ladies are strictly straight the other lady can go behind him and suck his balls or just assist  him by hand. Maybe play with his anus area. Click here if you would like to know how can you play with his anus area.

If the man gets too close to the no return point he should change partners. It is recommended in two women one man threesomes to change partners often. Also it is recommended to put a new condom on at every chance. It will take a few seconds only. Obviously you going to need more than a few condoms.

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It was your first threesome. You might have a greatest orgasm ever. It is a human nature to want to have more. You repeat the experience. But you have to watch yourself. You should end it, before the third person becomes too attached. Change partners, find somebody else or it might destroy your marriage. You still can maintain friendship with this person or ask him/her, to introduce you one of his/her friends.

You can make your threesome very erotic. Use your fantasies. If you have a hot tub or the hotel have hot tubs, start the fore play in the hot tub. The good threesome needs good set up. You should combine the participant ages, and you can combine the participant races. Today, it easy to find newly emigrated people from different countries. You can have a interracial threesome, plus you might learn something from their sex culture.

At last but definitely not least, if you want to be good lover, you have to take your time, you have to care about you partners and their feelings and you should not be pushy.

We hope this helped a little.

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